My husband is an expert gift wrapper. No detail is left undone…the edges are crisp, the bows are perfect, you don’t see any tape because he hides it and there’s not one ounce of ugly. I however, am a disaster, and the final product looks as though I left my glasses in another room while I wrapped it. One Christmas, back when we were dating, I wanted to impress him and wrapped his presents in thick gold glitter paper and silver glitter paper. Tasteful not tacky, I promise. I bought the paper at a lovely stationary store but they neglected to tell me that it’s best to use special tape because the paper is really really thick and the regular tape won’t stick to glitter. Yup, the wrapping popped open, many many times before the official gift opening. Between the gifts unwrapping themselves and the teensy weensy little glitter falling all over my floor, furniture, and getting stuck to my face…the novelty wore off. I still have that paper tucked away in a closet and I tried it once more for a wedding present. And you know what? My husband always chuckles when he sees my wrapping jobs, he thinks it’s cute…I didn’t need the glitter, he loves my kid-like wrapping.
My interest in spirituality began with looking for the glitter, not that it registered as that at the time. I searched high and low for information, answers, the best teachers, and the more woo-woo the more glittery they were to me, and the more interested I was. Even though I spent a lot of time with the glitter I don’t feel I wasted my time because it led me to learning that wasn’t what I was looking for after all. It took many years but I found what I was looking for and it’s way simple.
It’s different for everyone. What one person needs, another doesn’t. What another person resonates with, someone else may feel empty with. One person’s unfulfilling glitter experience might be a life changing experience for another. The important thing is remembering that as we look around to enjoy ourselves, don’t take it too seriously because lightheartedness assists us more than anything and, anyway, we already have what we’re looking for we just have to open to it.